Male cat 9months old

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  1. Katie89

    Katie89 PetForums Newbie

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    Hi, looking for some advice, I have 2 cats one male (Gage 9months) one female (Ellie 8months) both been neutered. Iv had a relationship breakdown and had to move in with family, been here 3months now and Gage has become very distant of late, not wanting cuddles, only coming near me when food is about, but giving my sister in law cuddles, and always sleeping on their bed and if he can't get into their bedroom he will meow and claw the carpet. amy advice would be great as I feel like I'm loosing him :( Ellie on the other hand is more loving and affectionate than she ever has been ;)
     
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    cows573 PetForums Senior

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    Cats are independent, will chose who they chose...

    If he is removed from this environment and back with you, I am sure your love will be returned. You cannot force him to return to you though while in this situation...
     
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