My daughter (now 21 and either away at University or travelling) has had guinea pigs for the last 10/11 years. During this time I've also had four children, a retriever and cats to look after.

I told her that when the older guinea pig in this pair died, I didn't feel able to take on yet another new one. The elder one died (aged 7) two weeks ago. I was upset, and my daughter distraught. She was home last week for 3 days and I very gently introduced the idea of re-homing the younger one. Lily (the guinea pig, not the daughter!) is lost without her companion, has lost quite a bit of weight, and is generally miserable.

My daughter is adamant that Lily should not be re-homed, but I feel that is unfair to her - she is pining and needs a friend.

Does anyone have any words of wisdom on this one?

We live in North London (near Muswell Hill) and ideally I'd like a family fairly close by who could offer Lily a loving home, with visitation rights for my daughter....

All help/ suggestions gratefully received.

Lily is approx 4 years old, a short-haired tre-colour with a friendly personality. I don't know how to upload photos, but could probably find a teenager to help me if necessary!!

could you not adopt an older piggie to live with her about the same age as her then they can get old together.

That's a very good suggestion - thanks.

But, I've told all my offspring that I want to take on less responsibility. I really feel that I've done my stint for the last 14 years, and if I say yes to another guinea pig (even an age-matched one), then the pressure will increase for another dog, cat etc.

Saying 'no' is something I seem to do a lot, but I'm pretty worn out with lots of other responsbilites apart from animal care!