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Old 08-07-2008, 10:24 AM
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History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

Oh my god, this is so hard to write. I've been slated since this happened on Saturday. I wish I did not have to come on here to tell you this, I just need to get it off my chest. I'm not looking for sympathy.... I don't know what I am looking for to be honset.


Let me rewind 13 months TODAY. We found our gorgeous rescue Boxer dead in our car, he had been attacked by two bitches two day's earlier and must have been too much out of sorts to get out of the car when the engine stopped (which was very unusual) sadly we found him dead some hours later............ it was the most upsetting time for us all as we all loved him so very much, I was not coping very well and by fate I got the chance to rescue another Boxer 4 day's after Scoob's had died, we called him Bingo and loved him instantly.

This Saturday, the weather was rainy, I have three of my own children and had four of their friends round for lunch and to play on a new areal adventure slide my husband had put in the garden. Bingo our dog was being boistruss around all 7 children and without thinking my 9 year old daughter put him in the car out of the way, two hours later my husband found him dead !! We are all devastated, especially my daughter. I have told her it was an accident and not to blame herself but I know deep down her heart is breaking.
I personally cannot get a grip or stop myself from crying. I feel like crap.

I have been totally slated a couple of people I have opened up to, and have been told we are not responsible to ever own another dog, which breaks my heart further, I am not coping with this. Once was hard to cope with but two ??

Please can anyone help ease my pain ??

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Old 08-07-2008, 10:36 AM
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

I dont understand
Was the first dog left in the car for two days?
Did they both die due to heat?
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Old 08-07-2008, 10:43 AM
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

Hi. I'm sorry if I was not clear. Our first Boxer was attacked two day's earlier and out of sorts the day of the accident, they both died in the car from heat I am so very sorry to have to admit !! when m y daughter put Bingo in the car on Saturday the weather was cool outside but obviously hot in the car
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i am so sorry to read this thread.and no i'm not going to slate you off. if anything can come of this then PLEASE teach your children the dangers of leaving dogs in cars...I might add, its not only children that need to learn this..I get so angry when i see dogs STILL left in cars and there are signs in the car parks where i live stating how dagerous it is....
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Old 08-07-2008, 10:53 AM
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

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i am so sorry to read this thread.and no i'm not going to slate you off. if anything can come of this then PLEASE teach your children the dangers of leaving dogs in cars...I might add, its not only children that need to learn this..I get so angry when i see dogs STILL left in cars and there are signs in the car parks where i live stating how dagerous it is....
Me neither...I hope a harsh lesson has been learned for everyone concerned.
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Old 08-07-2008, 10:59 AM
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

Im sorry im not going to slate u either BUT it is common knowledge that dogs should be not left in cars at any time!
Do u not have a suitable garden for a dog to be in? If u dont then why own a dog?
Im sorry if this sounds mean but 2 dogs lost their lifes because of stupidity.
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

My garden is huge 2000sm in total and we had it fenced off all the way around to make it safe, This was a complete freak accident that should not have happened. I know that my daughter will never get over this.

It infuriates me to see dog's in cars so much that I posted a note on somebodys car earlier this year when I saw they had left their dog in the car, I then waited for them to come back and I told them what had happened to our first dog Scooby.

I have also e-mailed yesterday, the News of the world and a UK magasine to see if they will cover a story of the dangers of leaving dog's in cars.... as yet I have heard nothing but I will chase it up as this is so important to us. If we can prevent such a cruel thing from ever happening to another family then I will do my best.

I am heartbroken that this has happened again, pleaase do not judge me x
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I know that my daughter will never get over this.

It infuriates me to see dog's in cars so much that I posted a note on somebodys car earlier this year when I saw they had left their dog in the car, I then waited for them to come back and I told them what had happened to our first dog Scooby.

I have also e-mailed yesterday, the News of the world and a UK magasine to see if they will cover a story of the dangers of leaving dog's in cars.... as yet I have heard nothing but I will chase it up as this is so important to us. If we can prevent such a cruel thing from ever happening to another family then I will do my best.

I am heartbroken that this has happened again, pleaase do not judge me x
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Re: History has repeated. A tragic accident happened !!

Im sorry but ive got no sympathy its the poor dogs that lost their lives i feel sorry for.

Please do not get any more dogs as i feel you are not suitable because i would never put a dog in a car to get it out the way why not put it in a room in the house.

Im sorry if you do not like my opion.
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Im sorry but ive got no sympathy its the poor dogs that lost their lives i feel sorry for.

Please do not get any more dogs as i feel you are not suitable because i would never put a dog in a car to get it out the way why not put it in a room in the house.

Im sorry if you do not like my opion.
i'm sorry i cannot see the point in anybody slatting this person off..from what i understand it was a 9 year old child that made the mistake the second time..
as i said before lets just hope that lessons will be learnt.
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