Originally Posted by Jessinfrance78

The adult supervision WAS there, BUT I was running round feeding 7children !! backwards and forwards with drinks,food etc. I obviously did not know my daughter had put him there. Or I would have acted immediatly. My husband was also around the garden just not at the second my daughter did what she did !!

Bingo would often go and lie in the sun, it never crossed my mind that he was in any danger,

How can I be to blame for this ?? It was an accident, I stress again that we are animal lovers and will NEVER EVER get over the loss. The guilt is unbearable.

This is far too painfull and maybe I should not have posted on here because I obviously offended most of you and for that I am sorry.

I only lost my dad three weeks ago, I'm still struggling to cope with that, he would have been my rock at a time like this !!

Our first dog Scooby, got in the car and did not get out. he was so big and nosey that he was normally the first to get out of the car when the engine stopped, this day he did not, he was so quiet that my husband did not realise he was there !! it was a complete accident that my husband left him there and an accident that I still cry over !!

Originally Posted by sallyanne

I don't think you've offended anyone,

I think we are struggling to understand Why this was allowed to happen for the second time, (well I am) unfortunatly it has and nothing will change that sadly.

Originally Posted by warmglo

You must be torn to pieces. That's a lot of guilt to deal with on top of your obvious grief. It was very brave of you to open yourself up to the slating you've recieved.

So sorry for your loss.