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Old 31-05-2008, 08:07 PM
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How do you deal with it?

Our fantastic little Indy, our loved family member, we had to make that choice and have her taken from us, how the hell do you deal with that? how can you take someone you loved so dearly to that place knowing that she will never come home with you again? WHY only 9 years old, suddenly taken to ill to carry on WHY

We cry but will never forget her, she was our light our joy but no more here with us in body but always in heart.

Indy we miss you and always love you.

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Old 31-05-2008, 08:11 PM
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Re: How do you deal with it?

sorry about your loss
its very hard decide whats best, but its for the best for the dog thats the main thing and you will always have her in your hearts
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Re: How do you deal with it?

So sorry to hear of your loss it is sad when they go to 'Rainbow Bridge' never an easy thing to say goodbye and they are never on this earth long enough!!!

Rest assured she is in a lovely place now and is running free with all the other animals that have been taken for us far too early.

Your sadness comes through in your post just think on the good times and there must have been lots of those, focus on those and keep those memories close.

RIP little Indy run free at the Bridge
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Re: How do you deal with it?

i wish i could tell you how to deal with it but i can't.......you have to hope that one day you'll be with her again........i'm still torn to shreds inside a month after i had to have my boy put down.....she'll live forever in your hearts...
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Re: How do you deal with it?

Im so very sorry , i wish i could help take your pain away, she will always be in your heart, i really feel for you and family after going through it myself, bless her, play happy at rainbow bridge.
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Re: How do you deal with it?

I am really sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful little girl.

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Re: How do you deal with it?

I dont deal with this sort of things...I am crying my eyes out....
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Re: How do you deal with it?

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Our fantastic little Indy, our loved family member, we had to make that choice and have her taken from us, how the hell do you deal with that? how can you take someone you loved so dearly to that place knowing that she will never come home with you again? WHY only 9 years old, suddenly taken to ill to carry on WHY

We cry but will never forget her, she was our light our joy but no more here with us in body but always in heart.

Indy we miss you and always love you.

I so want to give you an answer but I can't we all deal with it differently. "How do I deal with it." I wear my feelings on my cuff, ball my eyes out, talk, and talk about him (I've mainly had males). At first I beat myself up inside, what if..., why didn't I..., should I have... etc etc.

Whilst life goes on it isn't a closed chapter in your life she will become a fond memory, and you will remember the happy times but that takes time and believe me there will still be times in the future when you will have moments of upset.


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Re: How do you deal with it?

sorry for your loss,,,
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