Hi guys

I wanted to post here where i know people.

I am 7 weeks pregnant.... it wasnt planned my pill has failed, i have had a problem with a different pill in the past about 6 years ago but miscarried before i knew.

We made the decision to trust this pill but after two years I have fallen pregnant. My other half says its not the right time as his work is so stressful ( hes a surgeon) but i didnt feel i could go through an abortion... he tried to bully me to do it, went on a conference to america and said he'd move out when he got back if i was going to have the baby. He never contacted me once to ask if i was ok and has shown me no compassion what so ever.

So as he said he has moved out and left me.

I am going to have this baby, my family and friends cannot believe what he has done and are supporting me 100%.

This is why i havent been around much, im finding this very tough, i feel hurt and betrayed.

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how cruel of him! im so sorry Crofty....good luck with the baby im certain you wont regret your decision, and with the help and support of your family everything will be fine x

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What a pathetic excuse of a man! Wishing you all the very best, and hoping all goes well for you and your baby! You must be absolutely gutted!

As for daddy! Hit him where it hurts, May sound not very symperthetic not maybe! but you can make him pay for thisfor a very very long time! He may be able to move out and 'forget' don't allow him that convenience!

Again, all the best!

Bless you Thats so terrible..You are so lucky to have a supportive Family around you...Good on you for looking out for your Baby..Maybe in a few months your partner may regret his decision when the reality of being a father kicks in But then it will be too late for him..Can't believe he Bullied you to have an Abortion...It's HIM who will have to live with that.

Men like this really annoy me .. It takes 2 to make A baby but some men just walk away from their responsibitie's it's callous and cruel. Babie's do not ask to be conceived you should be really proud of your courage to go it alone.

You stick to your Guns you've made a brave move your baby is lucky to have such a lovely mum..He/She will know how his/her Dad walked out in a few years.....It will make you to even closer.

Keep us up to date with your pregnancy remember there's always someone here to talk to if you need to.

Stay Strong for yourself and your little one.

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How horrible! If I were you and I know it will be hard but forget about him, you have your family around to support you and us lot on here to talk if need be. Even if he decides later on that after thinking about it he is ready and wants to come back I wouldn't take him, if he's like that he honestly isn't worth the time.

I got pregnant whilst on the pill as well to the point I just thought stress was messing my body up and was still taking the pill 12 weeks into the pregnancy before I even thought to do a test.

Remember if you need to talk theres always one of us around.

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Oh Crofty what a horrible place to be in right now!
Sending you lots of ((((HUGS)))).

I cant believe your partner has done this to you, but you have already shown what a strong person you are by standing your ground on your decision to keep your baby.

You will be a great mum and out of all this heartache you a bringing a wonderful little life into the world who will love you so much.

I have had my experiences of the medical profession. Surgeons are funny characters ... prima dona is a good word ... may be he will come around if he sees you are serious (that's if you want him to).

Other than that, I think there are a lot of single mums on this forum, me included, and we will all tell you it is the most rewarding and wonderful thing to have a child (although some days it may not feel like it).

It is his loss and your gain. Just make sure little one doesn't have too much of the prima dona in him!

It's going to be hard but I am sure with support and us nutters on here, you will pull through. PM me if you want.

Clare x

Havent been on here in ages but just want you to know my heart is with you.

Sounds like you and your little one are better off without that kind of selfish person in your life.

I wish you the very, very best for the future. You are truley amazing....

xxx

Oh crofty, I'm really sorry to hear about your partner moving out Good on you for sticking to your guns though as you would have regreetd an abortion if that wasn't what you truly wanted.

You've got 3 men who I'm sure will help you along and keep you smiling (Joey, Dreamer and Teddy) and I'm sure Tink will be willing to lend a hand too!

You'll be a fab mum as your so caring and loving and I hope it all goes smoothly for you from here on in!

Good luck and keep us updated

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Couldn't just read this and not reply...I don't know you, but I'm so sorry about that coward bullying and leaving you like that.

You're so lucky to have your family supporting you. My mum was a single mother when she had me, and my grandparents more than made up for it Your baby will be just fine - keep us updated on the pregnancy, I love hearing about it X3 (can't wait to have my own!)

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