I was on your side the whole time, you did the right thing and from what you said, she didn't need the vet. I was arguing with someone who told you should've sought the advice from a vet.
anyway, doesn't matter now
NO worries. I really was not bothered by it. I am more bothered by what I did to my little girl, but so far it is not at all red and she isn't paying it any attention whatsoever. It hardly shows at all. You did make some good points about not subsituting vets for forums, and always best to go to vet if in doubt. So again, really, not a problem at all! Thanks for your concern!