i have just had words ( well via texts) with my 17 year old daughter who is out tonight! we had agreed when i dropped her off that i would pick her up at 11 oclock ( it is a 20 minute drive to where she is?) now she has just texted me asking can it be 11.30 ??? i have said no , 11 is late enough? do you think i am too strict or being unfair ( mind you by the time i finnish writing this she would have got her own way anyways!!!!)

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nope ur not being sticked.

mind u my son is 16 and comes in wen ever he wants...hes neva no lata then twelve-oneish...altho if he is gonna be lata he tells me wher he is 9 outta 10 times and wat time to expect him in ...i dont mind this coz he aint really the sort to go out alot lol...if he does his in his m8s house so i dont mind

my daughta is the same

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She's trying it on! I was exactly the same when I was her age and when I aske if I could come home later he anser was always NO!

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well, just got in now from picking her up!!!!!! so she sort of won i suppose, although she has had a few mouthfuls from me as well, it is really awkward because we live right in the country with no buses( she is currently doing her driving lessons,then i will be up all night worried) and all her friends are in our old town which is 20 mins away by car so she has to get a lift and of course it is my fault for moving to such a stupid place in the country!!! LOL cant win can we??? anyway night all , i am off to bed now , feel completely knackered LOL

aww you're a lovely mum!

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Its always the parents bloody fault

yes im afraid u are bein abit strick.....sorry..... i remember what it was like to be the one to have to be in first all the time its embarrasing

Nope, I don't think you're being too strict. If you both agree on a time, that's it. Done.
Also, it must be not very nice for you to have to drive 20 minutes alone close to midnight. So no, you're not. =)

But she is 17, and it is the weekend, so maybe you could compromise? You say 11:00, she says 11:30, you agree to go at 11:15. How about that?

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i don't think you are too strict. when mine were still at home i allways told them that while they lived under my roof they abide by my rules.when they got a place of their own they could have their own rules.



ps.........my grandson lives with me now and he does what he likes pmsl.( well he is now 20 )

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