my bf has used all his money for this month already so he cant go to work because he has no money, so he gets me ringing his boss making excuses but it carrying on
what would you do

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How is he hoping to get out of the situation then?
No work no money, no money no work
Sound bone idle to me

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No he works really hard actually!

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Obviously not, he's not gone today has he.
I would have thought of borrowing the money so I could get to work

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To be honest I think I would show him the door how is he intending to be able to look after you if you ever became his dependant if he is like this now I would be seriously worried

Stop making his excuses for him and tell him to just get off his butt and get back to work either by walking or borrow a bike it is simply not fair him 'putting' on you

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well ive told him to walk, he says too far
he cant borrow money from any1, i already lent him money
all he does is have a dig because its so unfair on him, im trying to be nice but its getting hard now

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Yep show him the door!
How are you ever going to have a future with this guy when he cant control his money?? You will never have anything as you will always have to bail him out!
What happens in the future if you have a family and he cant get to work???

smack him up the ear and tell him to stop being a fool with money and get him cracking back at work!

If not put him on the transfer list

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I agree, if he carries on like that he wont have a work to go to and what then? Surely there is someway he can get there. Can he not grab a lift of someone, maybe someone who works a bit near to his place? A mate, a neighbour, a family member? confused:

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Ive said it all, get up early and walk, go with your stepdad and wait for a few hours, get lifts etc
im not ringing his boss today cause she is foul

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