yes boys can be hard work

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wow thats a lot!! and a big age gap.ive got 10yr old boy 14yr old boy and a 13yr old girl,lots of attitude,cheek and rows in my house(all those hormones!) still im only 30,not going bald yet!!! heheheee..

Ive got a dog, 2 cats and a rabbit, give me animals over kids anyday!

At least they dont answer back and call you everything under the sun!!!

Scarey isnt it! doesnt seem that long ago i was a carefree teenager,now im creeping up to 40!!!! omg!!! time seemed to go so slowly when your kids now the years fly by.

dont want kids then, does your OH know this D

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Probably not, im not ruling it out one day but Im quite happy with the "kids" I've got at the moment!

Good on you far to many people have kids without thinking it through these days!! have you noticed how the subject of the threads gets drastically changed down the line,bit like chinese whispers!!lol

are yours making you feel old Darren

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We did the young bit,but not the financial bit!! things were a lot tighter then,having kids young does mean you can have a bit of your life back when they are grown up! travel maybe? also help with grandchildren and great grandchildren a bit more actively!