Bobbin is not coming home with me OH as said no child not going to be put at risk i carnt do anymore i cried all last night for this little boy and have to understand were he is comming from, so i have anither dog we are assessing today he might be coming to live me hes a staffy and been thrown out of his home owners were told he was in the pound and will get PTS if they dont take him back and they said fine do what you want some people want shouting, the charity have rescued him so hes safe now, and were going to see if we can get Bobbin over here for me to work with and find him the home he needs it the least i can do for him i love that dog so much i canrt leave him there he is going to waste away to nothing if somthing not done about it.

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ahh hun i'm sorry, we all no u will work so hard to get him a new home hes lucky to have u, wouldnt OH be persuaded if u did some work with bobbin first? maybe thats an idea? just tryin to help a bit

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Iv tried everything, i have even told him i will put him in kennels when she comes but he said thats not fair on the dog i cried and cried last night pleading with him to let me have him but we started to fall out and he said il move out move the dog in i felt like saying ok, but i will find a home and i have spoke to lisa and she said we do get people in your area who are looking and may need a home check so you would be good there.

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hun i'm sorry, in one way i can c his point but its heartbreakin for u becaiuse he means so much to u, how does it all work then the home check thing? what would i do?

I have just read the other thread.

I personally don't see what the problem is? The dog has mouthed a child, not bitten one, and yet you're not 'allowed' to have the dog because of your OH's daughter who stays for along weekend every 6-8 weeks?

If yopur OH is worried about his daughter, and doesn't want to risk the dog near her, the solution is simple. The dog is never allowed to come into contact with hsi daughter. For the weekends she is staying, the dogs can stay in the kitchen, behind a stairgate, and his daughter can stay the other side of the stairgate. The dogs can come itno the living room in the evenings when his daughter is in bed.

i woudl personally tell my OH to take a running jump and get the dog. If he didn't like it, he'd know what he could do. Maybe that's why we argue so much...

i agree with jackson hun

Thats spot on thats made me laugh cos your right and i can not get him to see this, i had a rotti and he had to waite 5 years to get is daughter to be able to stay with us as zac was just my dog and got teased by kids when he was a puppy so was not good with them sohe is saying he can not take that risk i have said i will put him in a kennle friday night just to sleep there and il get him out on saturday all day and than saturday back inthe kennel to sleep then sunday she goes home and he can be back with me whats is problem il slepp in the car with him if i got to but hes not budging and were just arguing over the dog now im sick to my back teeth and dont no what to do.

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And why I'm single.......LOL

Good post...agree wiv that 100 % and thats exactly wat i would do.

try again staf...show ur oh this post, and our replys.

i think he's being stubborn...if that was me ild be packing his bags...plenty more fish in the sea i say lol.