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Old 08-12-2010, 09:51 PM
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PATHETIC ....... cannot understand your cruel harsh comments at a time like this at all.

You ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

Correction - YOU should be ashamed of yourself - I HAVE EVERY SYMPATHY WITH THE DOG.

Read your first post back - basically - you don't want to keep another dog because you can;t cope with the two you have and never intended to keep anything in the first place - YOUR WORDS - NOT MINE. Nothing about "not getting to know him" - it's a DOG - not a new lover.

You have a litter of unhealth-tested pups from an unregistered sire that COULD have been prevented or stopped - I have every sympathy with the dog - I have NO sympathy when your comments are around its LOOKS and the fact you don't want to keep another dog on top of the two you already have - one who has already had how many homes?

My concern is for the WELFARE OF THE DOG ONLY - read your first post and ask again who should be ashamed of themself.
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Old 08-12-2010, 09:55 PM
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Re: Heart Hurts

For the record, I don't think your attitude stinks at all. You've had a hell of a lot to deal with and put in your position and then having some of the comments you've had... well, you've handled it much calmer and in a far more polite way that I would have

You are correct, not every breeder keeps a puppy back from each litter, I know of one breeder who has had over 12 litters in the past year or so but I've not seen 12 new pups come out for showing not even half of that tbh but then there's always the high and mighty that put themselves on a pedestal, way too high for any other to measure upto and to be sure nobody comes close they just constantly put others down, makes me sick !!!!

Also want to say, not all breeders would be put off selling a puppy with one eye... wasn't that long ago that I saw a 3 legged puppy for sale (born that way). This wasn't a pet breeder or BYB either.
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Re: Heart Hurts

I wont post again just because i feel it just fans flames on here. I didnt breed intentionally and i didnt know my girl was pregnant until way into the pregnancy. Maybe reading my first ever post would help understand. You see these questions of why etc are asked by those who havent previously read anything ive posted so have no knowledge of my situation.
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Thank you for the kind wishes those that have sent them and thank you for being with me guiding me since day 1 .

I was going to post a picture of her to share with you and return tomorrow to give you news from the vet .... but you know what...i'm not going to bother.

many on here know my circumstances etc, some dont, yet no matter what you post on these boards you ALWAYS ALWAYS get the people who truly see themselves as being better, wiser, more responsible, maybe even believing they are perfection itself giving their almighty two penneth worth of judgemental cr*p! Sickens me to my stomach to be honest.

well i'll tell you what .....those that may judge or make pathetic self absorbed attempts to make such statements like.....why breed if you had no intention of keeping a pup etc i have just one thing to say to you........

im not a breeder, however not all breeders keep a puppy from every litter anyway but thats by the by basically.......MIND YOUR OWN BLOODY BUSINESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

has nothing to do with poor pups eye.

I really want to say Im disgusted but with lots of foul language etc in between however im too much of a lady to say it and wont lower myself to the levels of those "high and mighty wanna be kno alls" who have nothing better to do than critisize.

I will find another forum if i need any advice in future.
im probably going to be jumped on for saying this but i agree with u i have seen myself step away so many time because of this!! i would also like to say not everyone keeps a pup from their litters...ellies litter was all sold non were kept from the breeder dont see why anyone should pick this out each time if u feel the need to keep a pup because you have bettered ur breed or maybe just for a pet then fair enough but its not alwys what everyone wants.... any way i would like to say to u dont get yourself down or upset there will be no disability with the pup its always known one eye and nothing else therefore it wont know any difrent!! she will be fine if u ask me she a special pup and i for one would love to see some piks of her xx
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Old 08-12-2010, 09:58 PM
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Re: Heart Hurts

Yeah some picks of the litter would be nice..
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:00 PM
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I wont post again just because i feel it just fans flames on here. I didnt breed intentionally and i didnt know my girl was pregnant until way into the pregnancy. Maybe reading my first ever post would help understand. You see these questions of why etc are asked by those who havent previously read anything ive posted so have no knowledge of my situation.
dont leave just ignore those who are...well..stuck up their own ar*e u will find some excellent advice from those willing to suport and help u iv had great advice and seen and red some of the amazing work some of the people do here...there are ofcourse those who think they r something special and cant keep their nose out esspecially when they are not helping or wanted but you just got to ignore them xx
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Correction - YOU should be ashamed of yourself - I HAVE EVERY SYMPATHY WITH THE DOG.

Read your first post back - basically - you don't want to keep another dog because you can;t cope with the two you have and never intended to keep anything in the first place - YOUR WORDS - NOT MINE. Nothing about "not getting to know him" - it's a DOG - not a new lover.

You have a litter of unhealth-tested pups from an unregistered sire that COULD have been prevented or stopped - I have every sympathy with the dog - I have NO sympathy when your comments are around its LOOKS and the fact you don't want to keep another dog on top of the two you already have - one who has already had how many homes?

My concern is for the WELFARE OF THE DOG ONLY - read your first post and ask again who should be ashamed of themself.
bull sH*T
U CARRE NOTHING ABOUT MY DOGS U ARE JUST TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK BETTER
THERE U GO AGAIN SECOND GUESSING - ONE OF WHO HAS ALREADY HAD 2 PREVIOUS HOMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!! AN ELDERY LADY WHO WENT INTO A CARE HOME SO MY SIS TOOK HIM IN RATHER THAN HIM GO TO A SHELTER!!!! I TOOK HIM BECAUSE SHE STARTED COLLEGE BECAUSE SHE LOST HER BABY AND NEEDED SOMETHING TO FOCUS ON!!!!!!!
DO NOT SPEAK OR POST TO ME AGAIN YOU HAVE JUST PROVED YOUR JUDGEMENTAL PERSONALITY.

I FEEL SORRY FOR U.
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:01 PM
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What would you say to a new mum of a disabled baby who in distress said she found it hard to cope with the children she already had????? would you tell her to hand her disabled baby to someone YOU think would make better parents???? maybe you'd have a go and say why get pregnant again if you find motherhood hard work!!!!!!!!!!
I would have EVERY sympathy with anyone with a disabled child - but yes - if someone struggled with motherhood and had another child - I would think them insane.

I nearly died having my daughter - as did my daughter - we didn't know for a fair time whether she would survive or if she would be brain damaged.

A post partum psychoses followed - and NO - as a result of all this - I opted to have NO MORE children - so damn right - I would think anyone insane if they really struggled but proceeded anyway - been there, done that and got the T-shirt - bringing a litter of puppies into the world offers MANY MORE OPTIONS to make the right decision than getting pregnant often does.

My daughter - graduating from Uni in just a few months - better to do good by the one than have any more.
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:03 PM
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I would have EVERY sympathy with anyone with a disabled child - but yes - if someone struggled with motherhood and had another child - I would think them insane.

I nearly died having my daughter - as did my daughter - we didn't know for a fair time whether she would survive or if she would be brain damaged.

A post partum psychoses followed - and NO - as a result of all this - I opted to have NO MORE children - so damn right - I would think anyone insane if they really struggled but proceeded anyway - been there, done that and got the T-shirt - bringing a litter of puppies into the world offers MANY MORE OPTIONS to make the right decision than getting pregnant often does.

My daughter - graduating from Uni in just a few months - better to do good by the one than have any more.
gota be honest some of your post really get to me!!
edit: these have just made me laugh!! sorry but ur going totally over board. So what if ur daughter graduating from uni?! who says you made her that way?! some people....
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:05 PM
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U CARRE NOTHING ABOUT MY DOGS U ARE JUST TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK BETTER
THERE U GO AGAIN SECOND GUESSING - ONE OF WHO HAS ALREADY HAD 2 PREVIOUS HOMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!! AN ELDERY LADY WHO WENT INTO A CARE HOME SO MY SIS TOOK HIM IN RATHER THAN HIM GO TO A SHELTER!!!! I TOOK HIM BECAUSE SHE STARTED COLLEGE BECAUSE SHE LOST HER BABY AND NEEDED SOMETHING TO FOCUS ON!!!!!!!
DO NOT SPEAK OR POST TO ME AGAIN YOU HAVE JUST PROVED YOUR JUDGEMENTAL PERSONALITY.

I FEEL SORRY FOR U.
Um - that's THREE homes - whatever the reasons.

I don't need to try and make myself feel better - I feel VERY sorry for the dog - and everything I do and say revolves around dogs - my own and other peoples - as most of my life has done.

It is people like you that make me understand why that has been the case.

You don't need to feel sorry for me - but I feel damn sorry for your dogs.
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