They are vieing for pecking order at the moment, and believe me girls are always worse than boys for it. Once little BamBam realises that she is the boss, things should calm down. How long have you had them together? as it can take a week or so for newcomers to settle in

only 24 hours!!

she is deffo the boss and bambam wont take no for an answer and keeps batting her tail when she isnt looking to tease her!

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Oh give it another week then Pinks and I'm sure you will notice a big improvement Its good your little man has loads of confidence and is not hiding behind the settee all the time, shows he has been reared well

yeah, he is a totally different character to kiwi, all she did was hide away, still does not, dont like to have human contact unless we open the fridge or eatin our diner!

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Kittens always come in with a view to taking over , she's just teaching him his place. You'd know if she really meant it, and so would he, he wouldn't go near her. He will tease her as much as he can get away with, and he will be cheeky til she tells him 'enough!'.
Has only been a day, some people wait weeks for them to get as close as yours are already
Just make sure she can get out of the room or go upstairs when she's really had enough of him pestering .

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