hey all i seperated them when i was out and they are together atm and buffy is easing up on him she still growls and hisses every now and then they also play a little bit which is gd. She still sometimes chases him i get the gist from her she is curious about him but a little scared as he is massive and shes tiny compared. I cant belive tho how chilled he is hes given buff the odd paw but hes not snapped or nothing towards her he does put up with her crap bless him. Oh an i wanted 2 call him ozzy but my bf decided he was his cat and he was 2 b called soap after a famous military bloke so soap it is such a odd name for a cat haha