sounds very much to me like they are play fighting and nothing to worry about, its natural. it always looks worse than it is.
is she crying when he starts on her

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i appreciate all the advice everyone has given me, just feeling a bit sensitive as i can't believe i was so gullable. no one can kick me harder than i'm kicking myself.

the great news is that she's gained 4oz in 10 days, and she's managing to eat normal kitten food now. she's still having kitten milk to make sure, and the vet is very pleased with her and how she's progressing.

when Freddy goes after her she tries to give as good as she gets!! she seems quite happy in his 'embrace', and if she cries i break it straight up - i'm beside them the whole time. plucky little thing is always wanting to go back to him- so i'm pretty confident it's playing...just need her to grow a bit more so they can enjoy themselves rather than me interferring all the time and spoiling their fun lol.

i'm in the process of designing them a great scratching post/ play centre, with cosy holes and beds too - i'll post pics when it's done

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Good thing about pf is we are all human xxx

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Pets are Gods way of apologising for our families x