Hi Lennox, i agree with the others in that he has always been topcat and he then had to share his food,loo,cuddles and general space with a pal that he didn't particular want,then once you moved and he assumed things would be how they were he gets another permanent pal and to top it off she's "whole",so he's trying to maintain once again his status before she matures and kicks his furry behind as he doesn't know she is to be spayed,and not always but often neuters/spays will get picked on by entires as entires see them as useless and not worth any form of rank)Plus a move so he has had a few unwanted changes of late,feliway should help and things will improve i'm sure once he realises his status and life has changed but for the better

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Burnthwaites Siamese

Thank you for the advice - that makes a lot of sense. I feel bad for all the chnages he has had. Im a bad mother, but i always have good intentions. It is hard renting and having a pet! But then that was my decision. i am going to try FELIWAY and she will be booked in for spaying soon (is that the right thing to do?). I really had no idea about cats that are 'whole' look down on the others. Makes sense, so she is basically mocking him because he has no balls! Women are cruel!

I just want Lennox back to his normal state he must be so pi**ed at me!

Oh don't be so hard on yourself,you sound like anything but a bad mumDThey don't always look down on them but a lot do,they kinda think ..You eat my food,you fill my loo, you steal my toys and snuggles and you can't give me babies,so why are you still here???I think spaying your girl is the right decision for you and Lennox at the moment,don't fret too much although i'm sure you will anyway but things i'm sure will soon resume to "normal" and they will give you something else to keep you on your toes,it's how they get their kicks

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Burnthwaites Siamese

Hi, yes I agree to spaying as when she is calling she is attracting toms who will fight poor Lennox so he will feel fear in his own home

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Adorable Ragdoll Cats

Just want to say thank you for your good advice. Leelou is booked in for her operation on 22nd August. This may sound weird but it feels quite harsh making a decision to end her opertunity to procreate - but it is the best thing for a domesticated animal if they were wild creatures it would be very different. Just a thought i had...

I do love my kitties they have such personality! Here are some pictures of them....

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Owwwww they are adorable

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I know - LeeLou is the little tabby one - that is a picture of her when we picked her up