Aah bless-the plug in thingys are great so everything crossed they help-it's great that Boo has ventured out to her teepee-may just be a slow process one that i'm sure will work itself out and resume normality so to speak

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Burnthwaites Siamese

Aww bless where'd you get her teepee?
It looks lovely

We got her teepee off ebay!! We got two of them, one for each. They dont usually use them but they seem to be a lately.


Cosy Cat house cream with brown paws on eBay, also Beds, Cats, Pet Supplies, Home Garden (end time 30-Jul-08 13:52:15 BST)

I found you one on ebay but not the same one x

Bobo has just totally lost it and really attacked the little one!!

I dont know what else to do, we have just shouted at Bobo but cant see if Boo is ok as she has gone straight under the settee

Thanks for the link hun, i'm sorry that bobo's behaviour isnt getting any better
I can only suggest you split them up for a while have you someone who could take bobo for a while?

There is the in laws but we didnt really want to seperate them in case it was just as hard to get them back together again. We are going to phone the vets tomorrow and see if we can take them back for check ups to see if they are still suffering

I find this really odd Im not sure what else to suggest hun? x

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Bralex

Feliway is good. try spraying the spray around. Also I used Rescue Remedy in the cats food and water and it really helps. Boots sell it.

I would ring your vet too, ask to speak to the vet who did the dental work, they may be busy but should call you back, tell them how things are since they came home and they may sugest taking them back.

We took them to the vets and he has said that they are both recovering really well from their dental work.

He said that due to us carrying out some general decorating around the house. We have had to put food, litter tray and a bed behind the sofa for the little un.

We have heard that apparently if they "pine" they can die? How true is this?

Im really upset as i dont want to get rid of either of them

I had the same problem after each of my cats came home from the vet after spaying/neutering.

I remember reading somewhere that besides the after effect of the anesthesia, that the cats come home with a foreign odor and that is the main cause of the alienation.

They said that rubbing them with a cloth/towel from home on them that has their scent on it (like something that they have slept on) should reduce or eliminate this problem from occuring if there are other cats in the house. It also suggested sending something with your scent on it to the vets with them to reduce their stress as well.