Oh goodie - my turn for a bashing now

I've said all I needed to say and now bowing out and going back to actually trying to help OP in the situation rather than make judgements based on assumptions - good night all.

Soupie, if this is not how it is then maybe the OP could explain a bit better? after all we are going on what she herself has type

I'd like to believe you, but honestly it doesn't look good

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I'm honestly not intending to bash you at all, I just cannot possibly see how you can agree that getting new animals before rehoming another is fair...

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Erm! and you are quaified as?

I am not getting into any kind or arguement over this so simple oneword answers will suffice!

BUT Assuming the cat is stressed and can no longer live in its current surroundings , and the problems it has at to much of a challangeto the current owner does it sound right to you to 'order' two more kittens prior to rehoming the existing cat? a simple yes or no will do there thankyou!

and next-do you have anything to do with these new kittens whatsoever?
Again a simple yes or no will do!

thanks in advance!
DT

i would just like to thank all of you for you support and advice.Next time i need help in a difficult situation i will defiantly come on here.

I cannot image why most of you come on here as you all seem to know everything about everything. You cannot possibly have any problems in your life as you have answers to everything.

double trouble- where i get my kittens from has nothing to do with you.I wont be looking at this thread again as it has been useless. It is supposed to be for re-homing .Im sure there are lots of other people in bad situations that you can attack.

So feel free to bitch and moan among yourselves.

shocking ain't it! how some folk care so very very much for their animals! They must be loopy the lot of em

I'm sure the OP is grateful to the members who have posted helpful advice

Keep it civil folks

I know the OP has a problem with giving the cat sedatives. However, in my opinion, in view of the seriousness of the situation, I think this cat would benefit from a product like Clomicalm. I have used it with great success on my boy, who is prone to aggression, "jealousy", indoor spraying and stress-related cystitis. I initially was sceptical about using medication until the bahaviourist suggested it. It has improved his quality of life a great deal, and that of those he lives with. In my experience, stress is cumulative: cats get stressed about being stressed and it just gets worse and worse. I think a course of Clomicalm will assist greatly in settling the kitty down until such time as she can be successfully rehomed. I also have used the services of a behaviourist, and it really worked well. She pointed out things I hadn't even thought of.
I won't go into the issue of whether she should be rehomed or not. It seems OP has tried most reasonable routes, so sometimes it's a case of "these things happen" and perhaps the kitty would be better off as a single cat in a new home.

have you tried bachs rescue remedy?
i used to put a few drops in Roz's water when she used to get stressed during firework season.im sure it would be safe for cats but do check first!

Hello - Jacky at Pure Bliss will rehome the Bengal. Early Generation Bengal kittens for sale from Purebliss Bengals - breeders of SUPERCATS on the Lincolnshire, Nottinghamshire boarder, within easy reach of Leicestershire, England, UK - I had a stray Bengal in my garden and she was really helpful. xx