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20-11-2008, 10:13 AM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
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20-11-2008, 10:30 AM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
Rest in peace little Beanie ....
Sending my condolencies to you Peter and to your wife. Sorry you went through such a hard time lately. 
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20-11-2008, 05:37 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
Thank you all. I spent today making Beanie a little coffin. I have dug a grave and tonight we shall bury her. Siamese Kelly sent me a poem that I shall be reading.
I feel so bad that I have not commented on the other losses that others here have had. I feel for you all. I have been a reck all week. My emotions have been everywhere. After beanie died, I felt a kind of relief, but I felt badly that I felt relived. I cant stop sobbing. I am a grown man for gods sake. But then again I dont really care. I feel what I feel I guess. I allways thaught I was kind of tough in that department. But bean was my little buddy. Ever since her last stroke I cared for her. She loved me to pick her up and carry her around. I would allways have what we called a loving before going to bed. Where I would put my head down next to her and give her a stroke, and she would often lick my face till it hurt! I am going to so miss all of that. Yesterday we looked at eachother in the eyes, and there was a moment where I could here her saying 'I have had enough daddy'. Thankyou all for listening to me. It has helped release what needed to be released. God bless you all. and your babies.
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20-11-2008, 05:44 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
Ahhh, Peter, it just shows how much you care. I for one don't think there's anything wrong with a man crying. I hope in time you can find time to join us and stick around.
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20-11-2008, 05:47 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
Losing a pet is the same as losing a human family member, its not something you ever really get over, you just get used to living with their loss. Some people don't understand that, but all pet owners do.
This may sound mad, but the special ones do come back. If they die of old age or after an illness, then they need time to recover, but they do find their way back to their loved ones. They may not look the same, but there will be that spark of recognition between you. You don't have to go looking for them either, fate has a way of ensuring you find each other again.
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20-11-2008, 06:13 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
I'm so sorry Peter (((hugs))) to you and your wife.
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20-11-2008, 06:29 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
I am so sorry for your loss xx
Time is a healer & I know nothing that is said to you right now can make you feel better but in time it does. As Selk has said nothing wrong with a man crying at all & agree it would be nice when you feel up to it to join us on here & chat. R.I.P. Beanie goodnight sleeptight & run free on that rainbow bridge xx
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20-11-2008, 06:56 PM
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Re: My cat is dying , and its breaking my heart.
both of you will cry - reading a post on this or anther forum, a memory, even a word spoken by another family member or friend will bring back a memory and the loss - it is OK to grieve.
You have lost a friend of 19 years. I repeat that - 19 YEARS!!!!! How many human friends do you have that have been friends that long? It isOK to grieve, it is Ok to feel down, it is Ok to feel tears pricking your eyelids.
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20-11-2008, 07:00 PM
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Re: My act is dieing, and its breaking my heart.
This is a awful situation to be in and had to have my cat of 16 pts in nov last year and i will never forget it. He went peacefully but i miss him terribley. My heart is with you and keep strong. TERESA x
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