I don't agree with your dad. I've got 5 cats, they're all happy, healthy & have completely different personalities. They play with each other, all have their own fav places & all get plenty of love & attention, tailored to what each cat wants & needs. Some like cuddles, some want 1:1 playtime, some follow me like a shadow! You know you're own cats & what they want & need from you & it sounds to me you're doing great with yours. Don't let him knock your confidence with them

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Mum to Saffy, Tilly, Sox, Mia and Munch

Thank MunchBunch

My dads not a big fan of pets, like a few other people i know. Its probably been said before but i see my cats as my kids I probably talk about them to much too. Thanks i try my best and i can say ive learnt alot in just one year of having them

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Cats-Decker, Horris, Soda
Dog-Sophie
10 Gallon tank - 1 fantail goldfish.
Rest in Peace Kira (cat)2011

You can never talk about your babies too much , there is no such thing
Don't take any notice of your dad hun just enjoy your lil fluff balls

Multi cat households are unbelievably common. Only a few cats who don't like cats may not like being in those houses.

My two love each other & the fun they have chasing each other.

i never stop talking about my little cats and puppy it maakes people want to go made but there like the one thing that makes you happy in the morning and well i just love them i know a few people that ant animal people it kinda annoying as they just dont get it how can anyone say no to a cute kitty little face or a sweet puppy licking you its so so cute lol

I get this on a weekly basis from my mother.

This weeks comment was "you think more about your cats than your children" .

Yes, this is why I wake each morning at 7am to dress, feed, give snacks, to the boys them walk them both 1 mile to school, walk again to get the youngest, then walk over again later to collect the eldest then back each day. (even though the 9 yr old could walk with friends).

This is why in September (full days for youngest) will sit in a freezing cold play-ground waiting on the 9 yr old as thhey finish 25mins apart.

Because I think of my cats!

Ignore him. Some people just "don't get it"!