just had another email,the third now!! apparently her new cars broke down and she cant collect monday as arranged,now its friday,but what happens if next week comes around and cars still broke or she is from paying for itrolleyes:
1st excuse was moving house
2nd was car troubles
3rd is car
ive held kitten for 5 weeks past others leaving home.getting fed up with excuses now,she has paid a small deposit,p[lus im getting very attatched and named her
how many times would you rearrange,and when would you say enough is enough

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I would tell her that this is the last time she can rearrange before you'll have to let the kitten go to someone else.

Her reasons may be valid but you just can't tell.

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I would have had enough by now. The person doesn't seem very stable, and I would constantly be worrying about what kind of life one of my babies was living! 5 weeks is a long time.

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i sent a email saying i could only hold til monday as arranged,i havent much faith that she would honour future arrangements anyway! i have another family who fell for her,plus im getting more and more attached myself!! she sleeps on my pillow every night and kneads and sucks my neck and gives me kisses

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Aww sweet but try not to get too attached unless you do want to keep her...

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Unless she is related to Frank Spencer I would tell her you are keeping kitty. lol

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"Life may not be the party we hoped for,
but while we're here we might as well dance."

I think you've done the right thing and if she comes on Monday talk to her to find out whether you think she's a suitable new owner for your baby, if you're not happy give her the deposit back and either keep her or let the other family have her.

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Our darling Foxy is now at Rainbow Bridge. R.I.P. little one, you'll always be loved.

Surely the new owner could have made other arrangements and tried a little harder to get her?
Anyway, sounds like you wanna keep her

I think you have given her enough chances - no matter what the problem she could have asked a friend to take her to collect the kit if her car had broken down rather than let you down again. In this instance I would refund the deposit and see if the other family you liked still want her. Five weeks is a long time to hold onto a kitten once it has been chosen and gone past its 13 weeks.

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For kittens, joy is for the asking and smiles are for the giving

Moving house... that's fair enough! Always a really stressful time.

Car troubles? Seems a silly excuse.

If my car broke down, I'd find someone else to drive me!!!