does anyone else feel that when your cat starts venturing in the outside world they no longer want as much huggin and comfort from "mummy"?

Sheldon is nearly 1 and has been going out properly for maybe 3 months or so. before he used to go out he was always asleep on my knee and wantin to play and things but now all he does is go out or sleep. no more cuddles for me

he also has a friend who doesnt seem to be human friendly and i think he's tellin sheldon that humans arent nice

Jasper is at pretty much the same stage as Sheldon (love that name for a cat by the way!) and going out for the same amount of time and I've noticed the same, although with the bad weather he's been in more which means more cuddles for!!

Mine was like that for sure. Wait until the colder weather though. The last 2 years she has joined us each night for bed time to keep warm. In the summer though, she only hops into bed to cuddle when it is breakfast time .

this is so true. i got him at xmas and had planned to keep him in so i havnt experienced cold weather really with him.

thankyou it was a spontaneous name lol.
when its rainin sheldon is either out anyway or jst staring at me as if its my fault ha ha.
they are funny little things lol
im sure jasper and sheldon wud be like the best of buddies lol. they seem alike he he