Thank you that poem was lovely and thank you sometimes it just seems that I im really struggling to deal with it and scared to deal with it as I keep reliving what happened, I go through the good memories but at the end it always comes back to that last day and him suffering

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R.I.P Tigger
Love you Always
Little Man
x x x x x x

You are welcome,
I lost two of my dogs not so long back one after the other. I still cant deal with it properly.
no one can replace what they have given to us….if you loos them
The reflection of the poem says all you need
I’m Still Here… not bodily but in the mind and heart.

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that is so sweet of your o/h what a lovely idea... you need to remember what kinf off life he would have had without you.. imagine he had no home nobody to love him.. alot of cats do

he was a lucky boy even if he wasnt very well, im sure he felt warm, not hungry, and so loved by you... you need to remember what a beautiful life you gave him and no matter how long it could have been so different.

i feel so badly for you i know how much it hurts.. even moving house ive found bits of fluffy hair from henry on my old clothes and chairs

it does get easier with time... i still get choked up when i think about him, but i remember what his life was before he came to us and how happy his last few pampered years were..

im sure your beautiful boy felt the same xxxxxx

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I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you're having a hard time of it at the moment. I don't think the pain becomes any easier to bear, but it is less oppressive with time and eventually you do get to the point when you can start to remember happier times. But it is a long road to get there, so don't beat yourself up when you're having a bad day x

I know how you feel as I still get episodes where I miss my boy soo badly I can hardly breathe. I lost him 7½ months ago to cancer. The guilt and his last month of sickness is still my dominating memory of him and it hurts so much.

I am also so scared of losing my memory of him – how he smelled, felt and the sounds he made. I try to visualise him but am finding it harder and harder. There is nothing I want more than to just hold him in my arms again.

I have no advise, only lots of sympathy.

Iv never heard of FIP and have just read about it on wiki and it turns out i lost my 1yr cat to that last year, she was fine one day she came in the next and she was really ill could hardly stand, by the time we got her to the vets it was to late, so have to agree with what people have already said you couldnt have done anything more than you did

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Thank you everyone ,He will always be in my heart but i just want to think of the good things and not the bad bit .
He never went without always had food (plus what the other 2 left on the sly) and treats and always had loads of snuggles he was so gorgeous and strong and a big baby.
@Alfride that's what i'm scared of I feel like if I forget that then i've failed him, I always think what if and its so hard as I don't know what caused it I think that's making it a lot harder to come to terms with.

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R.I.P Tigger
Love you Always
Little Man
x x x x x x

I hope you are feeling a bit better today, and that the bad days have got less, and will continue to get less.......

Its been 9 days since i lost my little one. I am still feeling terrible, and just can't seem to get passed it..... To make matters worse, the vets just rang to say her ashes are ready to collect. I hope that the pain goes away a bit.....everyone keeps telling me it will, but i just cannot seem to get back on my game.....I keep crying everytime i think of her, and on Wednesday (1 week anniversary) i was just awful.........I relived every minute of that awful morning. The Vet has assured me again today that i did the right thing, and that i would just have made her suffer if things had continued......which i wouldnt have wanted......but she perked up so many times from being rock bottom, its hard not to second guess myself, and wonder whether i should have out her back on the drip in the vets again, just to see how things went.....

Her brother is sitting next to me now, looking out of the window at the snow, on a cushion with his favorite toy........I think he misses her too.....