Lol! Raggs, for the purpose of this thread i think we'll make you an honourary woman so you're not offended by anything said against men x

Hunny, he's very much in the wrong and you know you're in the right x

Saying you're stupid is the only way he knows to keep your self confidence low - well next time he says it tell him he sounds like a broken record and if he has nothing relevent or remotely intelligent to say then to go speak to his neanderthal mate instead as you would like to have an adult conversation for once!!

if that don't work as i have friend getting me a nice big wok from the chinese cash and carry (it's not for cooking LOL) i shall get you one aswell x

however i would like video when you knock him out lol xx

and if he decides to read this let him read this bit...

PURRFECT DOES KNOW ALOT ABOUT ANIMALS AND EVERY BREEDER AND CAT OWNER ON THIS FORUM WILL VERIFY THIS!!!

hugs hun xx

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hahaha not ALL men :P just the ones with no sence!

pffft my boyfriend facys himself as a stay at home dad when/if we have children in the future! lord help me! i know he would always support me tho and he isnt a cat lover but he still plays and looks after my two.

I would put your foot down i wouldn't stand for that from my kids their friends or the ohs mates

I'm so sorry you are having a tough time. As others have said, you do not deserve to be spoken to like that. Put your foot down and stand your ground - he either respects you and speaks to you with that respect or .......

With regards to the kittens, could you not move the mommy and babies to a different part of the house where visitors are less likely to see them for a bit? I would also check out the new rules and regulations on animals rights - you may find that it is against the law to let the babies go before 8 weeks anyway!