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jo-pop · #61 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by jay_bird

just an example, on a thread last night discussing greyhare it was pointed out by one of her friends that the pink fluffy brigade was what may have caused her to leave. Another poster said (more or less) that was not true and good advice should always be given in a nice friendly manner as being too blunt scared people off. I pointed out (politely I might add) that her idea of a nice friendly manner might be my idea of patronising and childish, and it was the patronising and childish posts that stopped me posting, not the blunt ones. She then just turned around and said "well I would rather be pink and fluffy like me than a hard faced old hag like you". This always happens with that type, they are the first to resort to insults when something isnt sugar coated enough for them. Too much sugar coating though is not good for cat welfare as the message gets lost in the all that sticky coating

That is out of order! Whoever started the name calling has issues.
Please don't leave because of something like this. Those kinds if people tend to come and go quickly

broccoli · #62 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 01:26 PM

so - if no-one makes accusations of harshness on posts, then that will help keep those with the most experiance?
i do find it odd when threads decend into insult throwing - it doesnt help anyone

that sounds easy enough.....

jay_bird · #63 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by jo-pop

So correct them. I have no problem being corrected if I am wrong, it's the only way we learn.

tried that Jo, but like Buffie said a few posts ago it all ends with "taking threads off topic by pointing out someone has been a bit harsh,all that happens then is threads are closed,often never to bee seen again and any useful info goes too".

I got so many personal insults and I don't really need those when all I am trying to do is to help a cat in my won free time. Sadly not everyone is as receptive as you to be learn from their mistakes, for many just being told they have made a mistake causes a riot and a string of insults that have nothing to do with cats.

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Originally Posted by jo-pop

That is out of order! Whoever started the name calling has issues.
Please don't leave because of something like this. Those kinds if people tend to come and go quickly

Yes she has issues

I won't leave. I just don't post much as it I see how it goes in here and its not to my liking, so I just keep quiet. Shame though as i do have a lot of hands on knowledge I could share.

buffie · #64 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by broccoli

so - if no-one makes accusations of harshness on posts, then that will help keep those with the most experiance?
i do find it odd when threads decend into insult throwing - it doesnt help anyone

that sounds easy enough.....

You would think so wouldnt you,but it seems that is not the case.If advice is delivered in a straight talking manner it seems to offend many who would preferr to coat it in nice words but often a lot is lost in translation

Seems you cant win and often the only loser is the cat.

MoggyBaby · #65 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jay_bird

hag - bag - does it REALLY matter? The jist was, you didn't like what I said so resorted to personal insults like you often do when people wind you up and your limited logic and even more limited vocabulary fail you, you are left feeling helpless so all you can do is throw insults around. And as for your comments being a generalisation? Not true, you quoted me.

Now run along.

Oh and another thing, stop giving out potentially dangerous advice to people to burst cat abcesses when they haven't even been to a vet with the cat. If you don't know what you're on about, just stay out of it. Don't give out advice that could make the cat much much worse.

Please feel free to post up any 'insults' that I have made when people 'wind me up' - again, I would be very interested to read them. Good luck in finding them!!!!!

I merely quoted the advice given to me by a vet when I had a cat with an abscess issue.

Finally, there will be no further response from myself to you on any topic because you are a negative person, with negative vibes and people like you are simply not worth wasting my time on.

jay_bird · #66 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by MoggyBaby

Finally, there will be no further response from myself to you on any topic because you are a negative person, with negative vibes and people like you are simply not worth wasting my time on.

well I am glad it wasn't all of a waste of my time then. Bye xxxx

raggs · #67 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 03:15 PM

CAN WE PLEASE PUT AN END TO THE CHILDISH BICKERING THATS GOING ON IN HERE........if it doesnt stop this will be yet another post that has to be closed due to members acting like kids in a playground.....many thanks.......Chris

jay_bird · #68 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by raggs

CAN WE PLEASE PUT AN END TO THE CHILDISH BICKERING THATS GOING ON IN HERE........if it doesnt stop this will be yet another post that has to be closed due to members acting like kids in a playground.....many thanks.......Chris

hear hear Chris!! Wise words as always. I have found a nice fluffy pink bunny to add as my forum photo id in honour of greyhare so its now just a question of working out how to add it to the side of my posts.

raggs · #69 (**permalink**) 04-12-2011, 03:32 PM

This post will now be closed until its been looked into.........Chris.

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