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Old 15-10-2011, 05:26 PM
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Re: Just felt like a right idiot at the vets

If you feel like an idiot... what am I? I'm crying just reading that.
Glad that Luna is doing great. I hope none of us have to go through what that family had.
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Old 15-10-2011, 05:42 PM
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Re: Just felt like a right idiot at the vets

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Oh gawwwwd!! Took Luna to have her stitches removed and there was a cat on the floor in his/her cat carrier. His/her owner was pacing and couldnt seem to settle while poor puss was trying to claw its way out of the carrier and giving a really sad wail. They took him/her into the vets and came out around 10 minutes later sobbing and minus moggy receptionist basically gave her condolences and they left .

Well I filled up straight away, the lady accross the way with her small dog looked away, as did the lady next to her with a terrier. None of us could speak or even look at eachother, my dad just sort of sat there in an akward silence. I didnt realise but I was holding Luna's cat carrier really close to me and she had shuffled in the carrier so her head was near me as though she was trying to snuggle into me but her ears where down. I felt like such an idiot for nearly crying and it wasnt even my cat but that poor family .

Luna is fine her wound has healed beautifully and we were in there for all of a minute with the vet himself. So glad, she couldnt get back in the carrier quickly enough and headed straight for my mum when she got home.
You are absolutely not an idiot. The vets have been doing their jobs for years usually, they understand. It's no different than nearly crying (or crying) for a human who isn't related to you. Why do you think the other people looked away? You weren't the only person holding back tears.

EDIT: I think if I was a vet in that situation, I'd completely ignore all the ******** about professional standards and, if the human wanted, give them a cuddle (or hug if you prefer that term).
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Re: Just felt like a right idiot at the vets

Firstly showing emotion is a beautiful thing it shows you have a compassionate heart and are caring for others also it sounds like you could be an empath which is a Sensitive person who picks up the emotions of others to help you stop picking up the emotions of others say I am surrounded by a shield of White light. It's better if you can visualise it as well but in situations like that 1 say Rhe affirmation then say I am grounded and I keep my emotions under control when in that situation or something similar.
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