hey everyone!
i am a first time kitten owner and i am getting a 10 week old male desexed Birman kitten named Leo in 3 weeks.
i have read that i should find a 'safe room' when he first arrives (my bedroom) and to leave him in his carrier ill he comes out-but what do i do while i wait!?

should i sit in there with him, play with him or let him be!?
also, it says you have to put the litter box in the room. the problem is, mum says that litter boxes stink and i dont want my room to stink of cat poo and wee!!!
i was wondering what kind of litterbox is best for reducing the stink!!!
(i do not want to change the type of litter he was previously using at the breeder until he is older). in you guys/girls cats opinion,is a hooded, self cleaning or open litter box best?
also, because i have to leave him in his carrier til he comes out, is there a point of me getting him a bed? also i dont mind him sleeping on my bed, so when he is ready will he just jump up or what??????????????
THANKYOU! ingrid