We also have a 5 year old male cat that we took on a few months ago as a stray who started living in our garden (you can probably still read our posts!) Was a hard time but he has settled in now, we have been told that another girl cat would be ok with him. Hes a bit of a violent cat with people he doesnt know. I would like another now (i wasnt a cat person to be honest!) But now i am. She looks nice, but we live south west bham. If you cant home her please give me a shout.
Edit.. Im at home most of the time as i work from home and my partner is at home alot and our cat loves being close by, on night on our lap
