Thank you everyone, I do keep going over everything..

Vets can be really helpful sometimes and other time completely clueless

Would a tumour cause all that? I wish I knew what had happened to her

And my little tiga was such a pain for getting hold of things he shouldnt of.. but why did he have to eat it.. Its so different without them, its horible, but I dont think I could face having anymore cats not anytime soon atleast, my babys were my world and they always will be!