I said I was going to be taking her to vets, I said if it turned out she is preg then I don't know if I have it in me to missmate jab, I didn't say the responsibility is my childrens I assumed they were ok in my garden surrounded by a 6" fence with the dog, wasn't blaming just explaining what happened. I said they are 3 and 4 they are someone else accidently said 5 yr olds as mistakes DO happen. I was curious if you could feel anything my feeling her tum, I didn't say she is going to vets cos of curiosity sorry if I didn't write that sentenc clearly. I said right from the start when Rona responded that I was going to get her seen by vets. I was not deliberaty not taking advice given I was saying I am not sure I have it in me, we all have to face things that go against what we feel.