Your first problem, the weeing in the house, oh how i can sympathise with you. Molly is our 3rd pup and we have never had it so hard with toilet training, our others got the hang very quickly would paw the door or whine to go out, she never did so had to watch her like a hawk and even then she would stand in front of us and wee!!! she would lay in her bed not asleep and she would wee, its been a nightmare like yours we would pick up the food bowls and she would run to where the food is kept, when i put on my walking coat she would show me exactly where her lead was, far from daft, but a complete "numpty" in the weeing department, she will be 11months on the 19th and we are just beggining to relax (although not completely) our life for the past 8 months has revolved around molly's wee's. They do get there.