For anyone who read my other post, i took Tilly to the vets this evening and he confimed that she does have ear mites. He's given us some drops to treat her with and we've come home and sprayed and washed all of her bedding and sofa throws so hopefully they should clear up soon.
This was her 1st time at the vets and she was so so good, didn't try to struggle or escape or make any noise at all; just got on with it and fell to sleep in the carrier on the way home! Perfect! We bought her a new faux sheepshin pet blanklet as a treat and she is currently curled up on it right now, still scratching a bit but the vet said the drops would annoy her for the first few days as they would cause the mites to move around more but just glad it's sorted and she's back to her normal self again
