lol - this is what it is like having a baby! My first didn't sleep through until she was 4 and 1/2 years old!!!!!! I had two others by then - by the time the thrid slept through it was 7 years
since my last full nights sleep!! If you can't handle the kitten don't have kids!
I know you don't want another but they will play and keep each other company and occupied in the night - then you will be kept awake with all the running around and the bumping etc! You can't win, cats are noturnal by nature, but seriously she will eventually calm down - it is like kids give her a week of ignoring and it will settle - if you talk to your neighbours about what you are trying to doto stop it it might help too.