First of all thank you all for the advice... atm im desprate to try anythin..

My kitten has no other unusual behaviour.. i do try and tire her out and she seems to sleep for about an hour when i get into bed.... but after that she just crys.. i will try her with a bath towel tonight as i havent tried that yet... as for a radiator bed... in my apartment we have heaters not radiators so they dont fit on them.... she has LOADS of toys (shes very spoilt) so she cant possibly be bored..

i always feed her before i go to bed. so shes always got food throughout the night.. i have even got incontact with a vets and stated my problems and they suggested i get her spayed HOWEVER they wont spray her till shes 6 months... so onmly another 2 months of no sleep..... great!