Thanks for the reply..
Well i hve put a bit of vinegar at the end of the matress, so hopethat deters her, though not holding my breath!!
In the past my cat has always slept on my bed so i would like for clara to do the same.. As for keepin her somewhere else, we live in a town house and it is a very open living style, so room or bath room is probably smallest area any way......
she is using the litter tray as i type this -so she knows where it is!!!
Not too worried bout the meowing as figured it would be that - but when ever I gve her attention she stops -so figured that this could be the same..
Any way, goodnight - lets see what happens tonight!!