My cat sleeps alone in the kitchen and she has done from day one. I need my sleep and her cat hairs all over my bed would not help my asthma I don't think it is wrong to seperate your cat and I also do not feelt hat a bedroom is the place for animals. She lays on the bed when I am in there getting dressed or pottering around in there otherwise she is not in there at all. Plus the bedroom is the only decent room left after she got her claws into everything