Thank you for all your replies.

It does seem to be getting better, i know its going to take time. It has suprised me that Olive is has been unaccepting. She has no problems with dogs, my mum brings the family spaniel over regularly. they are besotted with each other! And she gets on with all the cats in the neighbourhood.

Olive seems to settle down quicker and pretty much ignore him until Oscar comes too close. And i think Oscar is beginning to understand its on her terms not his.

Anyway...i'm avoiding writing reports...

Thank you again x