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Originally Posted by Izzie999
That is the hard part, you don't want to keep going round in circles with this situation, I know you are very fond of Smudge but maybe in some way you have to move forward. Making an appointment to see this boy may help you do that.
I have lovely boys who are neutered and we have never had spraying from them, one of them was done after 12 months of age and he still didn't do it! I hope it goes well for you.
Izzie
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Yeah, you're quite right. It is a 'circles' situation. It will just drive me mad to keep seeing her and yet not being responsible for her. Everytime she looks a bit off colour I'd have to alert her real owners. Plus I'm thinking I still have the time to settle in a new arrival before I find another job. Just have this 'weird' loyalty to Smudge. Keep thinking of her little face if she comes back and finds another kitty here........I know, I'm crazy!!
I got official confirmation of my going crazy earlier - was listening to my i-pod while doing the housework and listening to a song called 'No air' - actually found myself replacing no air with 'no cat hair' and getting all upset cos all of the cat hair had gone off the bed now
Calling the white coat brigade now
