Sounds like you have fell hook, line and sinker for you baby. Like most of us do lol. After dinner times put her in the garden for a short time to relieve herself then let her back in and then again after sleep etc. Also try to leave the pup for short periods of time in the crate while you potter around the house so she will get use to it. Then try 5 mins longer every time and then eventually she will adjust. She is ruling you at the moment dont let it carry on. Your the boss and when you need time out she has got to understand that. Good luck.
