I feel for you Kathryn!! cos you are trying not to watch what they are eating! I potter about and watch out the corner of my eye!
Im obviously no kind of expert, but the advice Ive been given on here has worked brilliantly, Snugs is eating some wet, not much, and mostly the fish ones, but she is eating it - Hilife and Applaws, try not to get too disheartened, I know its easy to say but I guess we cant force them to eat what we give them, and they wouldnt starve themselves on purpose I guess, but I do know exatly how you are feeling and it is a worry, keep us posted how shes doing!