Not sure if this is any help but i've recently started fostering for the RSPCA, i'm not sure about older kittens but i know our small kittens are not homed with people with small children, if you keep your kittens inside or out is not an issue. I'm saddened to hear that people have been given kittens with little or no questions asked, that is certainly not the way its done in Milton Keynes, i have even been told that if i'm not happy with the people who have passed the phone interview and come to view the kittens then i am under no circumstances to let them go, in fact i have my first litter here at the moment, they have been here since they were 5 weeks old, they are ready to go a week tomorrow and i know for a fact i'll ask questions when they come to be rehomed.