why wouldnt you be allowed one with young children?

Especially as your children have grown up with animals, and soon to be growing up with puppies, so having to learn to respect them too!

What you want though is a Show Neuter - remember to let the breeder know you want to show! A good breeder will be able to select a likely looking kitten for you, after all they get shown with the breeders prefix. And no good breeder wants a "obviously" pet quality kitten being shown lol