I'm a little dubious about our local cat and dog shelter - when we got ralphie from there they wern't interested in talking to us about our situation or telling us anything about ralphie, we just got rushed through the paperwork and ushered out the way for everyone else in the queue.

I'm wondering if the RSPCA one about 40mins away mite be a little better?

When we're out with him I'm often in tears he's such hard work but then back at home I start to think I can't face the guilt of handing him over, I'd feel like we were letting him down.