hi and thanx for the reply, yes we inherited one of my grandad many years ago. We had him for 8 years but unfortunately he died of old age really upsetting! they are definately like a 2 year old child if not worse lol. I just love them though and have all the time in the world for them. They definately get used to one person and need spoiling and play time most of the time lol. If anyone can help i would be much appreciated, got to be an African Grey though i know them very well thanks again, kay x