Hi there

This is a dreadful situation for you to be going through and i think an urgent one as well, especially as you have children and the seriousness of poor Ralphies problems.

Now given the nature of his problems please don't find a home for him yourself, you should take him back to the rescue shelter you had him from and explain all his problems. They'll be able to assess him and find him a new home in time.

It's a big job for anyone to sort out so don't feel guilty, just remember by taking him back to the rescue shelter (if thats what you decide) you will be giving him the best chance you can and doing your best for him as you have been doing.

It's a sad decision to make but just remember you've done loads for him and still are.

Sorry i can't be of help behaviour wise but you seem to have done everything i can think of at the moment.

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Paula
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