Thanks for your help, i think that i need to give him more time, im a little stressed at the moment with 4 year old twins one thats disabled, three pet persians and a Dog , and although i love him to bits sometimes you cant see the woods for the trees.

I did'nt want to put him back in his stud pen because of the smell as although i can clean the inside i cant really do the outside as well and will still have his smell, and i dont want to get another cat.
I think i will give it a little longer some have pm me with some good ideas so i will look into them, and fingers crossed things might get better by summer.



Just to say, Dispite what you might think i have to defend my vet, i have been with him for 18 years and he has always been first class with my animals, i was stressed out and upset and he gave me an option or a way out. I dont think bad of him for this as he was only trying to help me out, i will continue to use him as i trust him 100% with my animals and at the end of the day the decision lies with me not my vet.