Hi thanks for ur advice, sox is 1yr oldthe reason she is giving her up is that she has split from her long term partner and is having to move from her house to a small flat or appartment can't remember which. I have contact with her on hacebook and have seen pics of her on there. She said that she is passing on all her papers and vet stuff. She was fine last week, has had a bed weekend re the ex and now seems offish. I will e-mail her with my concerns and see what she says. Like said by others she may be genuinly upset to see her go but I am just not sure thats her reason. But I also know that I am paranoid that something is going to happen and I won't end up with her so maybe this os whats worryingme more, I have waited so long for a pup. xx lisa xx