Hi I'm new to this forum and have joined this evening in desperation! We have a 17 month old King charles spanial who we have had since she was 10 weeks old. I can not get her toilet trained, when we first got her we tried crate training and this did not work...(in reflection the crate was to big) we tried puppy pads but she would always we next to them, for a while when the weather was warmer she started going outside but now shes in her second winter I am more desperate than ever. I'm begging someone to give me some advice as to how to get her to go outside, I can not continue to clean up the mess, the carpets are constantly soaking wet and shes even started weeing on our bed....I'm at the end of my tether and am having daily arguments with my husband as he wants her to go. to make matters worse we got a cat 5 months ago to keep the dog company on the rare occasions I went out as shes a very human depend dog and they are so lovely together but nowthe past couple of weeks shes started to pee on the carpet as well despite me changing her litter tray every day!!! Please help because at the moment I don't know what else to do, I've had to replace 2 carpets in the 17months we have had her and I can't continue like this, I'm a childminder and have kids around all day long! Any positive advice welcomed xx