Theres nothing wrong with kittens and children as long as you think that the child is grown-up to help look after it...our daughter is 5 and wev had cats since she was 6 months old..with no problems.
and must moggies get re-homed around 8 weeks but a proper breeder with pedigrees wont let them go before 13 weeks...
maybe you should think about getting a moggie for now and see how that goes before spending out on a pedigree that isnt right for your family..
good luck..
