Thankyou all so so much. I think I need to pull my self together and talk to my wife. Reading your replies has made me a bit of a state. I think I shall do some phoning around if we make that decision. The hardest thing is that she is obviously die'ing, but purring, I dont think she is in any kind of pain. She keeps putting her paw on me. I am just praying that she passes quickly. She doesnt deserve to suffer.